And I especially never thought I would find my way to an adult entertainment conference, but yet there I was! With several suitcases packed full of shoes mostly, I ended up at the famous EXXXOTICA in Miami a few weeks ago. Excited doesn’t even begin to describe how I felt. I had no idea what to expect and of course, every woman’s first concern is always what to wear! I mean really, what does one plan to wear at an event for adult entertainers? Especially, when you know they’re all going to be sexy and gorgeous. I quickly discovered that the answer to that question was… very little! Thank goodness I was surrounded by a few of my friends and between all of the things to see and do, I had lots to keep me busy!

All of the fun got kicked off Thursday night with a few meet and greets. We picked up Danni Jones, your favorite XXXtra naughty, all-natural, MILF, and headed to the lobby bar. There, I met lots of new faces. I was surprised to recognize a few faces and what do ya know, a few even recognized me! The next morning we picked up my publicist, Don Juan DeMarko and Danni Jones. We met up with the sexy Lolly Dames on our way into the conference and oh boy, did she look hot! It was so nice to realize that her personality was just as beautiful as she is. Danni, Lolly, and I hit it off from the very start!


We checked in, picked up our credentials and wouldn’t you know it, the first thing we saw was a stripper pole, but of course, everyone’s “goodies” had to stay covered. The room was a huge conference space with nothing but rows and rows of tables and booths full of all kinds of advertisements. As a matter, of fact, if you didn’t know any better, you would think that you were at any other regular conference exhibit except all the sexy people with tiny clothes on! In the middle of the room, there was quite a large computer setup full of sexy content creators. All weekend long different content creators in beautiful lingerie did live sessions on Chaturbate. Once we made our way to the back of the room, there was a large stage with live performances going on most of the day. Some of the most flexible and talented dancers I’ve ever seen performed all weekend long.

From there, Don Juan and Danni took me to just about every single booth and personally introduced me to all the adult entertainment stars. Every single person we met was unbelievably beautiful and always welcoming. They did make me feel comfortable even though I felt like a fish out of water. We met Spencer Bradley, who is just as down-to-earth as she is beautiful. But I could say the same thing about Lexi Luna, Katy Morgan, Ember Snow, Rebel Ryder, Alex Coal, Nyssa Nevers, and the list goes on.

The next day, while I chatted with Nyssa Nevers, I even got interviewed by the Stallion condom crew. They were going around doing interviews on using protection and the importance of STI testing. Although I am not sure why they chose to interview me, I had fun with it! I had the pleasure of meeting Kiki D’Aire with her partner in crime, Jack Hughman. Hopefully, I will get the opportunity to film with them one of these days. Last but certainly not least, the Brazzers booth had JMac, so of course, I had to snag a pic with him!


Besides adult entertainers, there were booths with sex toys, lubricants, condoms, lingerie, and even skincare! You name it, you can find it there. In addition, there was a second large room that was used as one of my favorite places, the dungeon. Since I love being naughty in the dungeon and I love new sex toys, I had to resist the urge to window shop all of their leather floggers and accessories. Once I was able to move past the shopping area I was surprised at all of the unique equipment and the services they provided. They had a shibari artist and you could get suspended; a massage therapist trained in the art of Tantric massage and yes, you could receive a massage. There were trained kinksters to assist, and answer questions and you could even try things out. My favorite was the Enfettered Rotating Wheel and of course, I had to get strapped in and take it for a spin; after all, being upside down is my favorite position if you know what I mean! Once I took it for a spin, lots of others had to follow suit!

By the end of the conference, the hubby and I were exhausted and overwhelmed, to say the least, but it was an unbelievable experience. We made connections that we could have never made otherwise with people who are just as beautiful on the inside as they are sexy on the outside. It was such a pleasure making connections with such talented professionals.