“My husband Stefano and I had a good marriage and an average sex life. Never in my life did I think I would make porn; we didn’t even really watch porn. But the day we started shooting is the day my marriage went from good to amazing,” explains Stella of how the past five years have transformed their relationship beyond imagination.
“Like many couples that have been together for many years, you tend to settle into repetitive routines. Kids happen. Work happens. Life happens. It takes a toll and the next thing you know years have passed. In our case we ran a successful business, then retired to a tropical island paradise. Life was good. But years of sandy beaches, as good as it sounds, gets old after a while. We wanted more. And one day I suggested we try making porn to spice up our sex life.”
Along the way, Stella and Stefano discovered seven ways that shooting porn improved their marriage, body, mind and life overall:
Communication : “We never realized how bad we were at communicating despite working and living together for nearly 20 years. We opened up about our fantasies, and that spilled into daily life as well.”
Self-Esteem : “I’ve long held onto shame that the religious side of my family drilled into my head. Porn allowed me to explore things that were considered taboo, and now I get to be me and free of that shame and oppression. This was a life changer for me.”
Closeness : “Having sex, especially crazy/goofy/kinky/unreal sex on camera is strange at first, but we found ourselves becoming closer on a level we didn’t even know was possible. We are more open to sexual experimentation without fear of judgment, which has led to even more incredible sex and orgasms.
Happiness : “I never thought I would achieve this level of happiness in my life. I’m not sure I even knew this level existed, but having this type of communication with my partner, along with the most amazing sex and orgasms really raises the bar for what a happy life is. If everyone could experience this we would have no wars, no problems and the world would be a utopia.
Exercise : “Stefano & I have never been exercise people; making porn got us so much more active, which led to weight loss, muscle gain, better eating habits. We get more exercise from daily sex than most people will ever get from a gym workout and it melted away over 70 pounds of fat off of my body over 18 months! As an added bonus, it’s good mental exercise too!”
Community : “I never realized how many lonely people there are in the world, or that making porn would help bring those people happiness. Singles and couples enjoy watching our films and say they learn and have fun with us and thank us for making their day better. This is the part of porn the critics never talk about, but being able to spread happiness to others is a huge benefit for us.”
Creativity & Learning: “ We’ve always been creative people but getting into porn unleashed new areas of creativity we had never really dealt with before: things such as story ideas, production and costumes can allow your creative brain to express itself in new ways, and learning new skills is a great way to keep your brain healthy and growing.”
Stella explains that “while I am not suggesting every couple should start making porn for all to see, I am suggesting that they might consider making porn just for themselves, or at least consider having some porn-like situations added to their sex life. Consider becoming your own porn star in your bedroom and you might enjoy some of these benefits yourself!”
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